Togetherness Project

Women Helping and Empowering Women to Rise Above Unexpected Hardships.

We do this by providing Education, Safety and Support through Coaching, Courses, and Faith-Based Communities.

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Empowering Women to Rise Above Unexpected Hardships.

We do this through Education & Advocacy, Coaching & Courses and Safe Faith-Based Communities.

FREE BROCHURE ON HEALING FROM BETRAYAL, TRAUMA, & THE PROCESS OF RECOVERY

Learn What No One Tells You About The Impacts of Trauma

Betrayal is an interpersonal trauma which shatters our assumptions about how we view life and the people closest to us, leaves us feeling as though our reality has been blown apart...and nothing feels safe. So how do you heal? Sign up for the FREE downloadable brochure, and find out how you can deal with strong negative emotions and work through your pain, without having to do it alone.

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FREE BROCHURE ON HEALING FROM BETRAYAL, TRAUMA, HEALING & RECOVERY

Here's What No One Tells You About The Impacts of Trauma

Betrayal is an interpersonal trauma which shatters our assumptions about how we view life and the people closest to us, leaves us feeling as though our reality has been blown apart...and nothing feels safe. So how do you heal? Sign up for the FREE downloadable brochure, and find out how you can deal with strong negative emotions and work through your pain, without having to do it alone.

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Melody Lovvorn

Executive Director, Togetherness Project

Melody is a relationship, betrayal, trauma & recovery coach, and has worked with women, men, couples and families in crisis for over 11 years.

"I understand how hard it is to walk through some of the most heartbreaking seasons of your life, and wanted to continue this critical care ministry. Therefore, I founded a non-profit organization solely focused on working with women healing from betrayal, trauma, abuse and the misuse of spiritual authority in faith-based systems."

"Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the Lord Your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you." - Deuteronomy 31:6

"We cannot change the past or what has happened to us, but we all have an opportunity to change the course of our outcome and be the HERO of our own story!" God is always at work, even when things do not work out as we hoped they would. Romans 8:28

TOGETHERNESS PROJECT is comprised of a team of women that uniquely bring personal experience and passion to helping women understand the nature of what they are going through. We want to listen and walk alongside women who are hurting. They do this by strategically creating and developing a clear path to move forward, providing coaching and ongoing support in safe faith-based communities for healing and moving beyond their pain. We want every woman to walk in restoration, reclaim who God created them to be, and to co-author the rest of their story.

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Melody Lovvorn

Executive Director, Togetherness Project

Melody is a Relationship, Betrayal, Trauma & Recovery Coach, and worked in non-profit with women, men, couples and families in crisis for over 10 years.

"I wanted to continue this much needed and critical-care ministry, and birthed a non-profit organization solely focused on working with women healing from abuse, betrayal trauma and processing hurt from toxic faith-based systems."

"Be strong and courageous, do not be afraid or tremble at them, for the Lord Your God is the one who goes with you. He will not fail you or forsake you." - Deuteronomy 31:6

"We cannot change what happens to us, but we all have an opportunity to change the course of our outcome and be the SHERO of our own story!"

TOGETHERNESS PROJECT is comprised of a team of women that uniquely bring personal experience and passion to helping women, like you, understand the nature of what you are going through, have created and developed a clear and strategic path forward, and coach and provide safe communities for healing and moving beyond betrayal to reclaim who God created you to be, and rewrite the rest of your story.

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Our Services

If you are a woman struggling to trust again after being blindsided by betrayal, or have anxiety related to being mistreated in a toxic work environment, finding yourself confused at the hands of a manipulator, seeking clarity from the fog of an abusive relationship, you are in the right place. Togetherness Project is a safe place with a team of women who want to hold space for you, provide confidentiality for you and to help you in your healing.

God designed you for more, and we provide courses, coaching and community available to help you work through the pain, heal your heart and find purpose again.

Life Beyond Betrayal Group Coaching

Covert Narcissism Group Coaching

Codependency

Group Coaching

Coaching is different than counseling. It is action oriented with specific goals to help a betrayed woman reach her goal as well as what obstacles might be preventing her from moving forward.

Group coaching is a powerful program because it provides additional clarity, confidence and built in accountability for an inner circle of women that walk together for 35 weeks. Your life will change your life! This weekly program includes receiving daily text communication, support and encouragement to get the desired outcome working through Surviving Trauma Beyond Betrayal, Grieving Beyond Betrayal and Reclaiming You Beyond Betrayal.

After this multi-week journey together, we will come out of the virtual world and enjoy a women's retreat weekend together in Alabama celebrating each of the graduates that will be ready to step into a new chapter of life beyond betrayal. This retreat will be free for you.

Life Beyond Betrayal Group Coaching registration ends on January 31st and starts the first week of February. Register now before it closes.

(All group coaching is delivered via zoom and space is limited)

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Are you in a toxic relationship and do not know where to turn? Are you uncomfortable at the thought of going to your church leaders because you are not sure what they will do or say? Do you feel conflicted about protecting who knows what is said about your partner because you still love them? If this is you, I get where you are. I have been there and want to help you.

The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist (CPAN) course is meant to define what narcissism is and what it is not, the types of narcissism, the traits and behaviors associated with this relationship, and the way in which we can respond in a healthy way.

Despite the manipulation and hurtful traits and behaviors of a narcissist, this is not the totality of that person. We are all created in the image of God and this person is no different. That being said, we were created by God to live in safety, harmony, and love with others. We have walked this journey - it is neither short nor easy, but it has allowed us to have a better understanding of ourselves, our relationships, and our futures.

This is an 8-week group coaching journey - you will not be alone, and will have the daily encouragement, and a weekly virtual group call for ongoing support that you need. You will gain awareness and tools to walk through your relationships and get stronger!

LEARN MORE

The New Codependency, " which clears up misconceptions about codependency, identifies how codependent behavior has changed, and provides a new generation with a road map to wellness.

The question remains:

What is and what is not codependency?

This powerful book by Melody Beattie along with two coaches will come alongside you each week to breakdown the definition and that much of codependency is normal behavior. It's about crossing lines. There are times we do too much, care too much, feel too little, or too engaged. Feeling resentment after giving is not the same as heartfelt generosity. Codependency is not an illness but rather a series of behaviors that, once broken down and analyzed, can be successfully combated. We will discuss activities pertaining to a particular behavior -- caretaking, controlling, manipulation, denial, repression, etc. -- that enable us to personalize our own step-bystep guide to wellness. You will leave this group realizing you have the power to take care of yourself, no matter what you are experiencing.

This is an 8-week group coaching journey - you will not be alone, and will have the daily encouragement, and a weekly virtual group call for ongoing support that you need. You will gain awareness and tools to walk through your relationships and get stronger!

LEARN MORE

Military Wives

Military Wives are left to run point in their homes as their husbands are deployed for many months at a time. If these women have been blindsided by betrayal or infidelity, it makes it even more difficult to parent as well as handle all the household responsibilities. We provide scholarships for women in financial difficulties, which will allow them access to the Life Beyond Betrayal membership portal and community. This will provide education, coursework and a supportive community with peer recovery coaches to help them heal so they won’t be alone.

Donate to the Scholarship Fund.

TOGETHER WE MAKE A DIFFERENCE

Young Women

We are passionate about building a curriculum for young girls and young women to better understand and identify grooming behaviors, emotional and spiritual abuse. Empowering young women through advocacy and education will help them avoid potentially harmful or destructive relationships. We want parents to be aware that these behaviors can start early with friends and family. However, we also want to equip young girls to protect themselves and their friends, even if they are not with their mom and dad. Coming soon.

COMING SOON

Our Services

If you are a woman struggling to trust again after being blindsided by betrayal, or have anxiety related to being mistreated in a toxic work environment, finding yourself confused at the hands of a manipulator, seeking clarity from the fog of an abusive relationship, you are in the right place. Togetherness Project is a safe place with a team of women who want to hold space for you, provide confidentiality for you and to help you in your healing.

God designed you for more, and we provide courses, coaching and community available to help you work through the pain, heal your heart and find purpose again.

Life Beyond Betrayal Group Coaching

Coaching is different than counseling. It is action oriented with specific goals to help a betrayed woman reach her goal as well as what obstacles might be preventing her from moving forward.

Group coaching is a powerful program because it provides additional clarity, confidence and built in accountability for an inner circle of women that walk together for 30 weeks. Your life will change your life! This weekly program includes receiving daily text communication, support and encouragement to get the desired outcome working through Surviving Trauma Beyond Betrayal, Grieving Beyond Betrayal and Reclaiming You Beyond Betrayal.

After this multi-week journey together, we will come out of the virtual world and enjoy a women's retreat weekend together in Alabama celebrating each of the graduates that will be ready to step into a new chapter of life beyond betrayal.

This retreat will be free for you.
Life Beyond Betrayal Group Coaching starts the first week of October and registration closes at midnight September 30, 2022.

(All group coaching is being delivered via zoom and space is limited- register now

$297 monthly fee)

REGISTER NOW

Covert Narcissism Group Coaching

Are you in a toxic relationship and do not know where to turn? Are you uncomfortable at the thought of going to your church leaders because you are not sure what they will do or say? Do you feel conflicted about protecting who knows what is said about your partner because you still love them? If this is you, I get where you are. I have been there and want to help you.

The Covert Passive-Aggressive Narcissist (CPAN) course is meant to define what narcissism is and what it is not, the types of narcissism, the traits and behaviors associated with this relationship, and the way in which we can respond in a healthy way.

Despite the manipulation and hurtful traits and behaviors of a narcissist, this is not the totality of that person. We are all created in the image of God and this person is no different. That being said, we were created by God to live in safety, harmony, and love with others. We have walked this journey - it is neither short nor easy, but it has allowed us to have a better understanding of ourselves, our relationships, and our futures.

This is a 10-week group coaching journey - you will not be alone, and will have the daily encouragement, and a weekly virtual group call for ongoing support that you need. You will gain awareness and tools to walk through your relationships and get stronger!

REGISTER NOW

Codependency Group Coaching

The New Codependency, " which clears up misconceptions about codependency, identifies how codependent behavior has changed, and provides a new generation with a road map to wellness.

The question remains:

What is and what is not codependency?

This powerful book by Melody Beattie along with two coaches will come alongside you each week to breakdown the definition and that much of codependency is normal behavior. It's about crossing lines. There are times we do too much, care too much, feel too little, or too engaged. Feeling resentment after giving is not the same as heartfelt generosity. Codependency is not an illness but rather a series of behaviors that, once broken down and analyzed, can be successfully combated. We will discuss activities pertaining to a particular behavior -- caretaking, controlling, manipulation, denial, repression, etc. -- that enable us to personalize our own step-bystep guide to wellness. You will leave this group realizing you have the power to take care of yourself, no matter what you are experiencing.

This is a 10-week group coaching journey - you will not be alone, and will have the daily encouragement, and a weekly virtual group call for ongoing support that you need. You will gain awareness and tools to walk through your relationships and get stronger!

REGISTER NOW

Military Wives

Military Wives are left to run point in their homes as their husbands are deployed for many months at a time. If these women have been blindsided by betrayal or infidelity, it makes it even more difficult to parent as well as handle all the household responsibilities. We provide scholarships for women in financial difficulties, which will allow them access to the Life Beyond Betrayal membership portal and community. This will provide education, coursework and a supportive community with peer recovery coaches to help them heal so they won’t be alone.

Donate to the Scholarship Fund.

Young Women

We are passionate about building a curriculum for young girls and young women to better understand and identify grooming behaviors, emotional and spiritual abuse. Empowering young women through advocacy and education will help them avoid potentially harmful or destructive relationships. We want parents to be aware that these behaviors can start early with friends and family. However, we also want to equip young girls to protect themselves and their friends, even if they are not with their mom and dad. Coming soon.

COMING SOON

Podcast

Melody & Friends

Being a woman is one of the greatest experiences in our lives, but also comes with plenty of emotional, relational and sociological challenges.

Join Melody as she connects with friends around the world facilitating real, relevant and honest conversations bringing hope, laughter and reality to our daily lives.

Yes, Take Me To The Podcast

What Clients Say

Here are some women choosing to live fully and do the difficult but rewarding work of rewriting the rest of their stories...

When I found out about my husband's pornography addiction, I was utterly and completely undone. My husband got help right away. Meanwhile, I was left stranded and in a mess. That is until I came across Melody's course and coaching. I decided to contact her and before I knew it, I was in a coaching group. It was exactly what I needed and was the lifeline I was searching for. Five months later, I have grown beyond what I thought was possible. Before, I felt hopeless, now I feel as if the breath of God has been restored to my soul.

Christina

Washington

When I finally found a group of women that shared elements of my/our story, I felt such relief. I had spent years trying to pray through healing and look for answers all by myself. The community of other wounded women has offered strength, courage, compassion, laughter, tears and most of all, hope. Just like anyone who is dealing with a tragedy, addiction or terrible situation - don't do it alone.

Becky

Alabama

The relief that came with accepting that I couldn't control my spouse or our circumstances. That I could only choose my own behavior. Being in a group that allows me to travel this journey and "feel" without having to justify myself. I am so grateful to have safety with this community of ladies and that I am loved and tended to by God through these women.

Karen

England

When you are walking in a relationship with someone in addiction and deception, many of the choices that you would normally have in a healthy relationship are taken away. The empathy from other women who knew what I was going through, having my feelings validated helped me realize that I wasn't crazy. Hearing the stories of other women who had walked through this and had recovered gave me lots of hope and being able to share my story and experiences in a safe place helped release the grief, shame and trauma little by little.

Stephanie

California

The thing that has been so meaningful and vital for me is the gift of community. I remember the first time I met a wife who had walked through similar things… almost cried knowing that I wasn't the only one. Not only was I not alone in my feelings, but to know her story and know that there is life on the other side of betrayal. There was nothing I could say or feel that would be looked down on, and would be loved and supported and allowed to process and feel whatever I needed to without fear of judgement. This was such a gift to me.

Heather

Georgia

After 16 years of affairs and betrayal, I believed that things could never change. Walking with Melody through her courses and confidential community helped me find a freedom and wholeness that is not contingent on my husband's choices. The progressive nature of her program offers extremely practical and

simple steps I could apply in my darkest days, gently lead me through the process of healing from the trauma and then invited me into a deeper dive through the grief, loss and ultimately the release. No stone is left unturned through this process! The empathetic way that Melody uses her own experience to validate my pain, yet encourages me to step into hard places has been the catalyst to helping me truly find new life beyond betrayal.

Audrey

North Carolina

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Email

melody@togethernessproject.com
Phone

(205) 910-8973
Address

130 Inverness Plaza, Suite 218

Birmingham, Alabama 35242

Togetherness Project is a 501 C3 non-profit organization relying on monthly donors, corporations and organizations together to help women. Partner together with us to create a healing and healthy community and world for women.

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